Everyone has their own idea of what makes a perfect massage. Some crave slow, sensual touch. Others want firm pressure, increasing their arousal, or even a mix of both. But how do you make sure your session is exactly what you need? That is where customisation comes in.

Personalising your tantric massage is not just an option with Karma Tantric it is encouraged. As the providers of the most sensual tantric massage London has ever seen, our masseuses know how to tailor the experience for you.

This guide will show you how to customise your session, so it aligns with your desires, whether you are after relaxation, sensuality, or something more erotic.

 

Step 1: Self-Reflection Before the Session

Start by thinking about what you want from your massage. Are you looking for full-body relaxation, a happy ending, a non-ejaculatory orgasm, or a mix? Knowing what you want helps you communicate better.
Be aware of your comfort levels. Are there areas you want the masseuse to avoid? Do you have a preference for gentle, medium, or firm touch? Being clear about your preferences makes it easier to create a satisfying experience.

Consider your energy levels too. Do you want a slow tantric massage that helps you unwind, or something that gradually builds your arousal? Knowing this will help your masseuse shape the perfect experience for you.
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Step 2: Communicate with Your Masseuse

Talk openly with your therapist before the session begins. Let them know what you are hoping to experience, any techniques you are curious about, and your comfort levels.

Do not hesitate to ask questions about techniques or what to expect. Our masseuses are experienced and know how to make you feel at ease. As one of our masseuses, Clara, says, “The best sessions are when a client feels comfortable enough to share what they want. That is when I can really take them on a journey.”

You can even share your thoughts on specific sensations you enjoy or which erogenous zones to focus on. The more your therapist knows, the better they can tailor the experience. For those who want an extra thrill, you can even book several services in one session. Find out how to combine different massages in this blog.

 

Step 3: Choose the Right Therapist

Look through our therapist profiles and read the reviews. We have a range of masseuses, from petite to curvy, Mediterranean to Eastern European. Some offer specific massages like BDSM massage, prostate massage, lingam, or yoni massage.

All of our masseuses are reviewed by clients, so you can see who has a style that matches your preferences. Whether you are after a dark tantric massage or a slippery nuru massage, there is someone who suits your needs.

If you are unsure who to choose, our reception team can guide you. Tell them what you are looking for, and they can recommend a masseuse who specialises in your preferred style.

Browse through all of our Karma girls now to find the ideal masseuse for you.

 

Step 4: Tailor the Environment

The right setting makes all the difference. You can request adjustments to lighting, music, or aromatherapy. Let us know if you prefer a soothing scent or complete silence.

Choose a session length that suits your mood. Our massages can range from one to three hours, giving you plenty of time to relax without feeling rushed.

If you love the idea of a sensual, candle-lit room, we can arrange that. Prefer soft ambient music or complete quiet? Just say so. Our goal is to make you feel completely comfortable.

Opting for an outcall massage? Find out how you can create the perfect environment and what kind of equipment you need to enjoy a tantric massage at home.

 

Step 5: Be Present During the Session

Focus on your breath and the sensations of touch. This keeps you grounded and helps you enjoy every moment.

Remember that you can always give feedback during the session. One of our masseuses, Isabella, shared this about a recent session: “I had a client who wanted a mix of gentle and firm touch during a lingam massage. By asking him to tell me when he wanted more or less pressure, it became a perfect balance of teasing and release.”

If you feel tense or distracted, take a slow, deep breath and let your body relax. You are here to enjoy yourself, so stay present.

 

Step 6: Ways to Customise Your Massage

Your massage can be as unique as you want. Start by deciding which areas of your body you want the most attention on. Some clients love a slow, teasing focus on their inner thighs, while others crave the gentle, sensual caress of their chest or even the sensitive areas around their neck. Just let your masseuse know.

You can also choose the massage type—sensual body-to-body, intimate yoni or lingam focus, light BDSM elements, or even a mix. Our masseuse Alara says that during a dark tantric massage “we might explore sensory deprivation with a blindfold, introduce light restraints, or use gentle spanking to heighten arousal. It’s about creating a safe space where you can let go.”

Tell your therapist how you want them to use their body. You can request a seductive body-to-body massage, where their oiled skin glides over yours, heightening sensitivity. If you prefer, ask them to maintain eye contact or whisper softly.

Another option is to incorporate sensory elements. You might want to try a blindfold or experiment with temperature play using warm oils or cooling balms. Feel free to express your curiosity.

You could also personalise your session by choosing how much interaction you want from your masseuse. Some clients prefer quiet presence, while others enjoy light conversation or affirming words during the experience. Sharing this preference helps your therapist create a space that suits your mood.

Interested in meeting Alara pictured above? See her profile now.

Tips for First-Time Clients

• Start Simple: If you are unsure, begin with basic preferences and let your masseuse guide you.
• Trust the Process: Our masseuses know how to create a comfortable and sensual experience, so stay open and let yourself relax.
• Embrace Vulnerability: Being honest about what you enjoy and what you are curious about can lead to a more fulfilling session.
• Be Open to Guidance: Sometimes, a suggestion from your masseuse can introduce you to new sensations you did not know you loved.

 

Enjoy an Expertly Crafted Massage Today

A customised tantric massage is about your pleasure, your comfort, and your desires. Our masseuses are here to listen, guide, and help you explore.

Ready to experience a massage that is truly yours? Book with one of our tantric masseuses today and discover how personal pleasure can be. We offer both incalls and outcalls to tailor your experience to your desires.

Not sure which to choose? See our guide on the differences between an incall and an outcall massage.