A happy ending massage lets you relieve built up tension, improves mental wellbeing, helps to improve erectile dysfunction and lets you experience a satisfying release.

If you want to help your partner experience all these benefits, you’re in the right place. Read on if you want to learn all the expert techniques you need to try this at home.

What’s even more effective than a DIY massage is a professional one conducted by trained massage therapists. If you want to explore more about our professional massages, see our happy ending massage London page to explore our range of masseuses.

This guide is here to walk you through how to give a sensual massage at home that builds to a deeply satisfying release, using the most effective techniques.

 

1. Set the Mood

Make sure you create the right ambiance for a sultry, yet relaxing massage. To set the scene make sure to dim the lights or use candles to create a space. Just be sure that it’s lit enough to see what you’re doing. Use high-quality, scented massage oils that will help to heighten all senses.

You don’t need to have a fancy massage table at home. Setting up on a bed or other comfortable setting can work just as well. Put on some calming music as a finishing touch to create the right scene.

Ask your partner how they’re feeling, what they’re in the mood for, and if there are any areas they’d like you to avoid or focus on.

Unlike a tantric massage, feeling grounded and tantric rituals are less important. But it’s a good idea to be in a calm state of mind.

Want to learn how to give a tantric massage? See our guide where we show you how to perform a tantric massage on a man or a woman.

 

2. Begin with a Light Touch

When starting the massage, focus on areas like the neck, shoulders, arms, back, and buttocks. Use a light touch, with only your fingertips. Keep your movements slow, steady and warm. This stage is about melting away tension so the body becomes receptive.

Vary where and how you touch, so your partner is constantly guessing where they’re going to feel you next. Circular and fluid motions help to build tension and work to increase blood flow.

Once you’ve started to warm up, gradually increase the pressure by incorporating your palms and thumbs into the massage. Here, you can use more firmer strokes, creating a more intense massage experience.

 

3. Sensual Progression

Now it’s time to build their arousal even more. As your partner starts to sink into the experience, shift your focus to different areas.

Ask them to turn over and start paying attention to their inner thigh. Located close to the genitals, it’s an erogenous zone for both men and women. Using your fingertips, gently massage the area, adding just the right amount of anticipation.

Let your hands roam. Circle the bellybutton, trace along the pelvic ridge, and stroke the inner thighs up towards the groin without making direct contact. Maintain eye contact if your partner is comfortable to add an extra layer of intimacy.

Adding nipple play can be extremely arousing as it activates the same part of the brain that deals with sexual stimulation. If you want to seem like a real professional, with your thumb and forefinger, gently massage the nipples using a rotating motion to enhance arousal.

If you want to really build arousal, try out our expert techniques for a prostate massage.

 

4. Transition to the Happy Ending

Begin to explore the genitals. Remember that the goals is to build sensation slowly, then deliberately pull back. You’re looking for the rise and fall of arousal, the gentle waves that eventually break into something much more intense.

For a penis massage, use both hands and apply oil generously. Start at the base and slowly glide upwards, alternating hands in a rhythmic motion. Try the “S-stroke”: hold the shaft lightly with the thumb and forefinger at the base, then guide your hand up in a gentle curve, alternating direction.

Incorporate the perineum by pressing into it with the heel of your hand or gently circling with your thumb. It’s surprisingly powerful when used in tandem with lingam massage.

For a vulva massage, start with the outer labia and progress inward. Use slow, circular motions with your fingers, gradually working towards the clitoral hood. Stay light and responsive, letting her body guide you.

It’s easy to see why a happy ending massage is one of our most popular erotic massage services.

 

5. Aftercare

Once the massage has ended, offer water or a warm towel. Stay close, offer cuddles or conversation if your partner wants it. This part is just as important as what came before as it’s where they integrate everything they’ve felt.

 

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By starting with slow, teasing movements and leading to the happy ending, you’ll create just the right amount of arousal that makes the pay off so much more worth it.

If you want to experience the true pleasure that only a professional masseuse can bring, book your massage now. Browse through our Karma girls and find the perfect masseuse for you.

Before your massage, read our guide to erotic massage etiquette so your session will go smoothly.