Considering a Lesbian Massage? - Top 5 Questions Answered

Considering a Lesbian Massage? The Ultimate Feminine Fantasy…

Our resident tantrica Erica Suarez-Hillingdon answers your top 5 questions about lesbian massage.

I thought It’s about time we covered this topic, after many requests sent in by girls looking to try a yoni lesbian massage in London for the first time. I will try to include some helpful information based on how I have helped other Karma Tantric lady members with their journey, and helped them overcome any fears or doubts when considering a female tantric massage.

Here are the top 5 questions I get most commonly asked, I hope it helps clear a few things up. – Erica x

1. So what is a lesbian or yoni tantric massage?

It seems the earliest record of lesbian tantra dates back to the 5th Century AD. It is described as the a ritual by which you liberate or separate the two aspects of consciousness and female divine body. These days I’ve seen it referred to as a Yoni massage in some places. Modern tantricas say it is a massage that stimulates total undoubted release of the body and mind between a female masseuse, and her female client.

So let’s be clear here.. this is a tantric massage given to one female, by another female. The emphasis being on the physical, mental and spiritual connection between the two ladies. One female client at Karma Tantric gave a great description in one of the reviews she left after a Karma Tantric lesbian massage session.

“..a session of feminine discovery and erotic pleasure in authentic magical tantric energy” – VickyShh

2. Is it strictly for lesbian women or..?

I get asked this many times from my girl friends as well as many potential lesbian massage first timers. We live in a world with so many variations of sexual preference, so it’s not unusual to change sexual preference, or at least try new things to see if they work for you. Many ladies who have female tantric massages are not lesbians, or may not even consider themselves bisexual at all. It seems that girls tend to be more sexually adventurous with their own gender than men are.

I think what’s important here is that no matter what your sexual classification, a female tantric massage is something many women get satisfaction from, and have the right to do so. It’s your particular sexual desire, and you should feel free to explore it in whichever environment you deem fit. Many of us are highly stressed, over worked women who need a little private release in our lives. It’s nothing to be ashamed of.

3. How do I know I will feel comfortable? It’s my first time doing this..

If your own inner sexual desire is curiously looking into female tantric massage, then it’s safe to say theres a subconscious interest there. We very rarely dislike the things we crave passionately, after all, if you like the idea of it, you will probably love the real physical and erotically enchanting touch of another female.

Of course if on the rare occasion you begin a lesbian massage session that you are not completely comfortable to carry on with, its at your discretion to stop at any point. In the 8 years I have been actively involved in tantric therapy in the UK and across Europe, I have seldom heard of a lady leaving a massage because she was not enjoying the experience. So the option is there if you need it.

4. What’s my next step?

There are a range of tantric masseuses available on the market as well as many agencies who will organise a tantric massage booking for you in London. I obviously work closely with Karma Tantric here in the UK, as I feel that they provide a premier service and well trained set of females who really know how to perform a lesbian tantric massage well.

Many tantric massage agencies will be too quick to offer you girls for lesbian massage who have little or no experience in lesbian tantra, and leave you feeling unsatisfied. Karma Tantric offers information on each girl’s profile to indicate which types of massages they provide, e.g. yoni / female massage, nuru massage etc. This is particularly useful for ladies looking for the perfect female massage partner.

If you would like to find out more about potentially booking a female tantric massage session, take a look here, where you will find answers to frequently asked questions, and some more information to help you book the right female massage.

I have also taken some time to hand pick some genuine lesbian massage girls listed below, who are all trained in authentic tantric techniques, and offer tantra massages specifically tailored to women. Please feel free to post any questions as I’m always willing to help. Good Luck Ladies! – Erica x


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    I had to write a review on the mind blowing female yoni massage I had on Thursday! Thank you to Mimi for all of your help on the phone 🙂 But most of all to Erica for your blog. Had I not come across this website on lesbian tantric massage I’m not sure I would have gone through with it, or at least not for some time. My experience was beyond exhilarating, it was liberating to feel such an intense closeness and arousal. Thank you thank you thank you <3

    • Georgia Karma

      Hi Nina, Thank you so much for your amazing review. We are so pleased to hear you enjoyed your time with us and hope to arrange another session for you again soon. Best wishes all the Karma Team x

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    I’ve booked my first yoni massage and am all ready to go 😉 A little nervous but the ladies on the reception have been great and answered all my questions! Thank you guys for your help! I’m really excited 🙂 🙂 🙂

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    Finally, a female massage article actually worth reading which I found very informative. As a professional female, I work long hours in the city, and find that discretion is really an important factor for me and others when booking a tantric or sexual massage service in London. I dread the thought that someone may find out about my hobby, however after talking with the team at Karma Tantric, I was put at ease by understanding the heavy focus they have on discretion and security.

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    Great article Erica, thanks for the insight!
    I now book regularly with Karma, and have done so for the past 3 months. I must say I have never been so impressed by the professional attitude and overall understanding that Suzy and the Karma team have shown towards my massage requirements. Ive booked with many other agencies including London Tantric, Peachy and West London Tantric, however I have never received this standard of service and quality tantra massage before.

    • Erica Suarez-Hillingdon

      Yes I must agree, the team at Karma Tantric really know how to find the right lesbian masseuse for their clients. Many agencies just send whoever they have available and don’t really consider who is good at female tantra or not. What some of these other agencies do not realise is that women can FEEL when the woman touching them is not ‘into it’. Maybe other tantric massage agencies in London should take note on how things are done properly at Karma. Again thanks for your comments and glad I could help. Erica. x

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    I would just like to say thank you Erica, I always enjoy reading your articles about lesbian tantric massage, as they are informative and useful. In fact it was your insight that gave me the confidence to take the first step and book my first lesbian tantric experience. You have opened up a whole new world for me, thank you for your support! x

    • Erica Suarez-Hillingdon

      I really appreciate your lovely comments Marie, it’s always nice to know when I have been able to help others on their female massage journey. I hope my future articles about tantric massage will also be useful to you. All the best, Erica x