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Tantra and erectile dysfunction? Doesn’t sound like two topics you would hear about together at all and probably not something that would come up over general dinner conversation. Anyway, isn’t tantra some sex ritual and how in the world has that got anything to do with mens arousal issues? Well, you would certainly be surprised if I told you…
It’s not a particularly nice phrase, ‘erectile dysfunction’. And it’s not a particularly nice thing to experience, the struggle to maintain an erection during sexual activity. But hey, look, based on the stats above, it’s going to affect many of us at some point.
The causes of erectile dysfunction might be tied to low self-esteem or other psychological problems, or they might be more clearly physical – the result of an unhealthy lifestyle, for example. So, if erectile dysfunction could basically happen to any of us, we should be equipped with ways of dealing with it. In this piece I’ll explain how, if you suffer from this particular irritation, you might be able to help or even cure it through the wonderful practice of tantra and tantric sex.
“What is tantra? What is tantric sex?” you’re wondering. I’ve got you, don’t worry. Tantra is fantastic. In sexual terms, it’s about connecting with yourself, and sometimes the energy of another person. Not only can it supercharge your arousal and subsequently your erections, it can also create more intense sexual encounters, resolve premature ejaculation even unleash male multiple orgasms!.
Why Do Men Suffer From Erectile Dysfunction?
People’s reasons for suffering from erectile dysfunction are as varied as the people themselves. The reasons can be physical – symptoms of ill health like heart disease, substance abuse and high cholesterol can all contribute – but they can also be entirely psychological. A man in perfect physical condition, who takes no drugs and has no history of heart problems, can have difficulty maintaining an erection because guess what? It’s really hard to control what’s going on in our brains.
First of all, if you experience erectile dysfunction or have a partner who struggles with it, don’t blame yourself. You’re a legend and blame is a dangerous thing that can perpetuate the problem, causing a rift between the two of you. In the blame game, everyone loses.
You may struggle to keep an erection going because you associate sex with trauma: you may have experienced sexual abuse, for example. You may have a general fear of failure, which seeps into your sex life and undermines your confidence in the bedroom. You may be absolutely incapable of quitting pornography, rendering you unable to get hard without the help of onscreen titillation.
Don’t let it get too bad
Because it’s a physical issue that can be so inextricably tied to our thought processes, it’s one of those annoying problems that may get worse the longer it goes unsolved. In other words, if you know you have been consistently unable to maintain an erection over the last six months, every time you come to have sex you might be even more worried, making it harder every time (if you’ll excuse the pun). This can go on and on, so it’s important to have some ideas up your sleeve as to how to get your love rocket back on track.
Don’t Just Rely on Viagra Or Medication
Because sex is so important to so many people – and it’s kind of essential to the continuation of the human race, so that’s understandable – it is not exactly a struggle to find people proposing ways to solve the problem of erectile dysfunction. I’m sure you’ve seen the pop-ups and the emails. The most iconic of these solutions, Viagra, can work (for an astonishingly long time in some cases) but isn’t really a long-term solution. For a start, you might suffer some of the many possible side effects, which include abnormal vision and dizziness. Or you might simply find that the tablets have diminishing returns as your body becomes desensitised to them.
This is why tantra and tantric sex are such good ideas. They don’t rely on chemicals. They give you a tool kit to help achieve a higher state of sexual consciousness. Using the techniques can make you feel infinitely more relaxed in the build-up to sex – and during it.
How Can Tantra Help Me Stay Aroused?
Tantra techniques focus on resolving emotional and sexual blocks or traumas. It’s these negative feelings that create stressful blockages, ultimately stopping you from unleashing your true erection potential. One tantra tool, tantric breathing, allows you to focus on and heal those mental stresses that are stopping you from performing. You would be surprised exactly what you can achieve in your body and mind by learning the right breathing techniques.
Potentially the most popular tantric practice is tantric massage. Probably because you basically get sexually pampered by a goddess. It uses touch to help calm the body in a sensual and arousing way, incorporating genital stimulation. Not only does it increase blood flow to the pelvic area, meaning that erections are in turn easier to achieve, it also increases sexual confidence. It can also include tantric breathing to multiply its effects and break any barriers stopping you from standing to full attention and generally showing everyone what you are made of.
Willing To Give Tantra A Go?
If you want to see if tantra can help you get back to your sexually healthy self, there’s a few ways you can start. If you are willing to be open with your partner, you can consider trying tantric massage together at home. To do this you will need to learn a little about tantric massage techniques of course before you attempt this. For those of you who are single or wish to embark on the journey on your own, then you can start by learning some personal tantric exercises you can do yourself.
Find A Professional Tantric Masseuse To Help
If you really want to address this in a proactive way and don’t have a partner to work on it with you, then you should certainly consider seeking out a tantric massage from a trained tantric masseuse who knows what she is doing. After all, the last thing you want to toy with in any sort of amateur fashion is your emotional and sexual health. Now remember, a proper tantric masseuse will be trained in connective body work, so it’s not the same as getting a mechanical happy ending from a seedy massage parlour. It’s an erotic body to body balancing experience that will truly blow your mind.
Karma Tantric arrange professional tantric massages in London for those of you seeking to harness the power of tantra for your relaxation and pleasure. If that sounds intriguing to you – and why the hell wouldn’t it? – pick up the phone and book a tantric massage session in London today.
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